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Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Gender dengan jantina? Ada beza ka?

Assalamualaikum.

Pada kesempatan ini, saya ingin mengucapkan selamat datang kepada bulan Rejab tahun 1930 Hijrah. Semoga rakan2 semuslim saya berpuasa sunat pada hari ne ye!! Semalam saya ada terbaca satu buku. Di dalam buku tu menerangkan tentang peranan lelaki dan wanita untuk merialisasikan impian yang dicadangkan oleh Tun Dr. Mahathir Muhamad iaitu wawasan 2020.
Dalam buku tu ada menyatakan gender dengan jantina tu tak sama. Pelik gak la. Sebeb kalau saya isi borang apa2 pon yang meminta butiran jantina/gender dan ada kadang2 jantina/sex saya boh lelaki ja. Sebenarnya ada juga perbezaannya dari sudut ilmu.

Definisi gender ialah persepsi, perlakuan dan tindak-tanduk individu masyarakat yang terhasil daripada proses sosialisasi yang mana membezakan peranan, tanggugjawab, pengagihan kuasa' pengagihan sumber2 dan hak2 di antara lelaki dan perempuan. Jadi, gender ni berbeza dengan jantina kerana tidak diitentukan secara biologi. Ianya berbeza dari sudut budaya ke satu budaya dan boleh berubah mengikut masa.

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PERBEZAAN ISTILAH GENDER DAN JANTINA DARI SUDUT ILMU

Dari segi biologi, jantina bermaksud perbezaan di antara lelaki dan perempuan dari segi rupa paras, bentuk badan, kromosom, hormon dan yang seangkatan dengannya lah. Jantina tak boleh berubah. Memandangkan gender adalah berdasarkan persepsi, ianya boleh diubah melalui proses sosialisasi dan tindajan arfimatif iaitu dasar, polisi, kuota dan lain2.


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HURAIAN TENTANG GENDER

Dalam kebanyakkan budaya dalam dunia ni, selalunya budak lelaki digaakkan bertindak dan membuat segala perlakuan dengan sifat kelelakiannya kan. Begitulah sebaliknya bagi budak perempua. Saya ambil alat permainan sebagai 1 contoh. Budak lelaki ni lebih prefer untuk bermain dengan permainan yang ada advanture seperti senapang,pistol dan lain2 lagi la. Manakala, budak perempuan pula lebih prefer untuk bermain anak patung seperti Barbie Doll dan macam2 lagi la yang seangkatan dengan barbie doll 2. Kanak2 ne mempelajari peranan gender ne sejak dari lahir lagi. Mereka mempelajari bagaimana mereka sepatutnya berkelakuan bagi membolehkan mereka dilihat oleh orang lain, dan juga diri mereka sendiri, sebagai maskulin (bagi lelaki) dan feminin (bagi perempuan). Sepanjang kehidupan mereka, mereka mengikut tindak tanduk yang ditonjolkan oleh ibu bapa, adik beradik, guru, saudara mara mereka dan juga masyarakat umum.

Dalam biologi kita ada diberitahu tentang stereotaip yang bermaksud ciri2 seseorang yang boleh dilihat secara zahir kan? Stereotaip gender adalah kepercayaan yang dibuat secara umum terhadap peranan jantina dalam masyarakat. Stereotaip gender adalah berbeza mengikut 4 dimensi iaitu ciri2, peranan tingkah laku, keadaan fizikal dan pekerjaan. Sebagai contoh, lelaki selalunya dilihat lebih agresif dan suka bersaing, manakala perempuan pula sering dilihat sebagai pasif dan suka bekerjasama. Ini berkait rapat dengan sikap feminin dan maskulin mereka.

Kesimpulannya di sini, saya ingin menyatakan bahawa gender dan jantina itu adalah berbeza dari sudut ilmu kerana gender itu berkait dengan persepsi seseorang tentang sifat2 bagi lelaki dan perempuan dan jantina itu adalah perbezaan antara lelaki dan perempuan dari segi hormon, kromosom, bentuk badan dan rupa paras. Sekian.


Sunday, June 21, 2009

Appreciation.

Assalamualaikum everybody. Today I would like 2 express my wish 'HAPPY FATHER'S DAY' 2 all of the father in this world. The song which is sing by Yusuf Islam (Cat Steven) have a very good meaning 2 a person which named 'Father'. The title of the song is 'father and son'

Father and Son

Father
Its not time to make a change,
Just relax, take it easy.
Youre still young, thats your fault,
Theres so much you have to know.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but Im happy.

I was once like you are now, and I know that its not easy,
To be calm when youve found something going on.
But take your time, think a lot,
Why, think of everything youve got.
For you will still be here tomorrow, but your dreams may not.

Son
How can I try to explain, when I do he turns away again.
Its always been the same, same old story.
From the moment I could talk I was ordered to listen.
Now theres a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.

Father
Its not time to make a change,
Just sit down, take it slowly.
Youre still young, thats your fault,
Theres so much you have to go through.
Find a girl, settle down,
If you want you can marry.
Look at me, I am old, but Im happy.
(son-- away away away, I know I have to
Make this decision alone - no)
Son
All the times that I cried, keeping all the things I knew inside,
Its hard, but its harder to ignore it.
If they were right, Id agree, but its them you know not me.
Now theres a way and I know that I have to go away.
I know I have to go.

who wants to hear this song and the meaning of the song click this link.


We should appreciate our father because of their sacrifice we can grow up normally. Without them, what the characteristic of person that we have today? So, why we cannot appreciate them once in a year? Because of egoistic of teenagers today? Disgust? Rich than your father? Ask yourself. Either your father is disgust, old or an empty person to you, you should appreciate them at least once a year which is on the 21 June every year to show your love and responsibility to your father. That's all for today. Ass.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Semangat nih....

Huh. Akhirnya dapat jugak aku menulis entry baru. Sepanjang minggu ni, aku keboringan dok rumah sorang2. Tak tau nak buat apa. Memang boring. Tera nak p UiTM hujung bulan ne. Cakap pasal UiTM, hari ne aku ada terbuka laman web UiTM Kedah. Apa yang aku dapati di dalamnya ialah





Fulamiax. Ada ucapan untuk aku. For kawan2 aku yang dapat UiTM lain 2 jangan jelez r. Siswa siswi UiTM kedah ja yg dapat jemputan macam neh.. XD. Ok r. Tak tau nak mengomong apa dah ni. K. Salam

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Why??

Today, I would like 2 share with all my friends why i'm so3 lazy 2 post a new entry. In 3 month I become a blogger, I only have 8 entries at my blog. Look, how lazy I am. I look to all of my friends blog and what have i find is-in 1 month, they have about 10-20 entries. How diligent they are if compare with me. Why I become like this?
  1. I don't have very much idea to post a new thing at my blog.
  2. Not many events have occur to me every day. (Juz eat, sleep and play)
  3. Nothing to share.
  4. All my friends have continue their studies (Matric and foundation)
  5. FIFA 09 have affect me very much.
  6. LAZY. XD
  7. Sleep after Subuh.
  8. Wake up late.
  9. And many more laa
Huh. That's my problem. Who has read this entry, i really2 hope 2 give me some suggestion on what is the best thing for me to post in this blog. I hope, one day I become a very2 diligent in the word of blogging. XD

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Matrix n form 6.

Mulai tarikh 11/5/2009, kebanyakkan rakan2ku akan mendaftar masuk ke matrix dan ke tingkatan 6 mengikut tawaran mereka masing2. Tetepi, aku terpaksa menunggu tarikh 27/6/2009 untuk mendaftar masuk ke UiTM Kedah di dlm bidang pentadbiran awam fakulti sanis pentadbiran dan pengajian polisi.

Hmm. Apa yg harus aku lakukan untuk memenuhi masa sebulan setengah lg 2?? Juz men game FIFA, tengok bola, mengonline, mkn dan tido??. Ataupun layan adik aku yg bernama Aqil Danish 2.?? Tiap2 hari tengok Ultraman, B-Daman, Digimon, Tom2 bak, Kapten Boleh n mcm2 g. Sampai aku pn terjebak dalam katun2 2.. erm. Jnoh r cm ne. X tau nak wat ap dah.. Agk2 syoq wt ap??

Nasib baik la kena PLKN, terisi gak masa aku selama 2 bulan setengah ngn aktiviti2 mnyeronokkan. Kepada rakan2 yg x dapat 2, padan muka hampa. Haha. Mesti boring g dri aku ne.. em. Nak kluaq rumah pn x bole dah. Kwn2 rmy yg dpt fom6 n matrix. Jd, susah la nk jumpa pas ne. Nak kluaq g men bowling ka, bdminton, futsal n kuaq jln2 susah r pas ne. Hurm.. Susah2. Nseb bek r geng2 asasi universiti msuk lmbt cket. Tp, hujung bulan ne gak r depa msuk.. abeh.. dok berkabong r dlm rumah ne..

spa2 yg terbaca entry ne bg r suggestion, nk wt ap yg berfaedah cket. kot2 r bole dapat income lbeh cket. Boleh shopping cket bli brng nak masuk u. haha.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

HARAP MAAF, NAMA ANDA TIDAK TERSENARAI....


Profession perguruan merupakan kerjaya yang paling mulia kepada semua individu muslim. Hal ini kerana bidang inilah yang akan memberikan didikkan awal kepada pelajar-pelajar yang masih kecil. Seusia 5 tahun, pelajar-pelajar telah didedahkan dengan ilmu-ilmu yg berguna kepada mereka sendiri.. Niat di hati guru hanyalah 1 iaitu, memberikan anak murid-anak murid mereka mendapat ilmu yang mereka sampaikan dan beramal dengannya serta menggunakan ilmu tersebut untuk berbakti kepada agama, bangsa dan negara.

Cheewah,
Skema ar pulak.

Em,
Sebenarnya penulis ne berminat jugak dgn profession perguruan. TAPI.... Dengan keputusan 5A 4B 2C jd macam ne pulak'HARAP MAAF NAMA ANDA TIDAK TERSENARAI UNTUK TEMUDUGA'.. Em. Yg tu la jadi penghalang cita-citaku untuk bergelar seorang guru matematik ataupun Ustaz yg mengajar syariah islam.. Sungguh sedih.. Em. Tak pa.. Hidup mesti diteruskan. Betul tak?? Kerana sekali anda gagal tidak semestinya selamanya anda gagal. Cuma, di dalam diri mesti ada kemahuan untuk terus berjuang bagi mencapai cita-cita yang diidamkan..

Tapi.. Jalan mana yang harus ku pilih?? Ke matrik atau bahagian UPU punya?? Sesiapa yang membaca post ne tolong ar bg pendapat.. Expecially my brother la. Minta kawan-kawan yang lain juga memberikan pendapat.. For the UPU, I hope i get Universiti Sains Islam Malaysia dalam kos Syariah dan Undang-undang.. Doa2kn ek. Tapi.. banyak sungguh tapi aih. Em. Diri ini juga merasakan program matrikulasi merupakan tempat yang lebih baik untuk belajar. Arghh.. Yg mna 1?? Jika ke program yg ditawarkan oleh UPU atau IPTA, ia memerlukan kos yang banyak untuk menampungnya. Kena la pinjam duit dari PTPTN. Jenoh pulak la kena bayar sampai RM26000. Bukannya cikit 2. Huh..Apa-apapun "a champion shows who he is by what he does when he's tested. When a person gets up and says 'I can still do it', he's a champion"

Jadi,
Kesimpulannya di sini, janganlah jadi macam saya di sini. Tu la. Masa SPM pun boleh main lagi. Kerja nak main futsal ja. Akhirnya jadi macam ne ar.Kepada adik-adik yang lahir pada tahun 1992 dan kebawah, jika terbaca post ini. Struggle in your SPM. SPM shows your future.
;)

Monday, March 30, 2009

Menjadikan Kehidupan Lebih Senang

Mahu belajar cara untuk tambah nilai kredit, membayar bil air, astro, elektrik melalui telefon bimbit anda?

Semuanya melalui SMS dan miss call sahaja.

Perbankan SMS

  • Penggunaan SMS untuk perhubungan dan komunikasi sudah sebati dalam kehidupan manusia pada zaman ini.
  • Seiring dengan ledakan industri TELEFON BIMBIT, SMS bagai satu kaedah yang tidak boleh dipisahkan.
  • Mobile Money International Sdn. Bhd. merupakan perintis di Malaysia yang menjalankan sistem pembayaran menggunakan TELEFON BIMBIT, yang bermula pada tahun 2007.
  • Syarikat telah melaburkan RM 4 juta untuk membangunkan sistem pembayaran menggunakan telefon bimbit dan menjadi kaedah alternatif yang SELAMAT dan MUDAH.
  • Penggunaan perkhidmatan seperti ini semakin meluas di EROPAH dan ASIA.
  • Penggunaan Mobile Money masih baru lagi di Malaysia, teteapi dalam jangka masa 3 atau 4 tahun lagi perkhidmatan ini dijanga mendapat sambutan apabila ramai pengguna sedar mengenai kemudahan serta keselesaan menggunakannya.
  • Perisian/software Mobile Money ini boleh menghasilkan pendapatan SEUMUR HIDUP (RESIDUAL INCOME-PENCEN) kepada pengguna.
Apakah perkhidmatan yang ditawarkan Mobile Money kepada penggunanya?

  1. Membeli prepaid untuk diri sendiri atau untuk orang lain. (Maxis, Digi, Celcom, i-Talk, dll) Anda akan dapat komisen atas penggunaan kemudahan ini.
  2. Bayar bil utiliti, Astro, cukai pintu, indah water, TM, Celcom, Digi, Maxis, AIA, Etiqa, PTPTN dan banyak lagi.
  3. Bayar pinjaan rumah, pinjaman kereta dan kredit kad; Affin, Alliance, Ambank, CIMB, Direct Access, Muamalat, Bank Islam, B Rakyat, EON Bank, HLB, Maybank, PBB, RHB, Citi Bank, OCBC, HSBC, Standard Chartered, BSN, UOB.
  4. Sentuh dan bayar di mana-mana kedai yang menerima Mobile Money
  5. Anda akan menerima komisen dengan setiap transaksi anda di atas.



Anda cuma perlu membayar RM110 untuk memiliki perisian/software di dalam telefon bimbit anda. Anda akan menerima voucher bernilai RM 100. Dengan voucher tersebut anda boleh menebus kepada barang-barang seperti kaca mata, spirulina, pen drive, madu, habatuss sauda dll. RM 10 pula dibayar untuk insurans kepada perkhidmatan ini.






Mobile Money International Sdn. Bhd.

Latar belakang syarikat
  • Syarikat ditubuhkan pada Februari 2005
  • Modal berbayar 21 juta
  • Pemegang sahau utama
-PBB Group Bhd. (Anak syarikat kumpulan Robert Kuok)
-Lee Eng Sia (Pengarah & Pengasas Mobile Money)

  • Pengerusi - Dato' Zainal Abidin bin Putih
- Bekas Pengerusi Pengurusan Dana Harta
- Pengarah : Malaysian Accounting Standard Board
- Pengarah : Tenaga Nasional Berhad, ESSO Malaysia Berhad dan CIMB



UNTUK PENGETAHUAN LEBIH LANJUT DAN CARA-CARA UNTUK MEMPEROLEH PERISIAN/ SOFTWARE INI DALAM TELEFON BIMBIT ANDA DAN CARA UNTUK MENGGUNAKAN KEMUDAHN INI SILA HUBUNGI
AFIQ : 0194528324

Sunday, March 22, 2009

You Raise Me Up

FOR MY TEACHERS AND MY FRIENDS






When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary;
When troubles come and my heart burdened be;
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence,
Until you come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains;
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas;
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders;
You raise me up... To more than I can be.

You raise me up... To more than I can be.

Success in Life

SUCCESS??? What is the meaning of success for you??

Success is the hardest thing to achieve for all human beings.
Success is the good fortune that comes from aspiration, desperation, perspiration and inspiration when someone is still a student. The road to success is always under construction. That's mean the studies field in this world is never end.

How to become a success person??

  • How you think is everything. Remember to “think positive” at every opportunity. Visualize success, not failure. Avoid negative environments and people.You are what you think. In fact, a study shows that positive thinking actually increases longevity.
  • Decide on your dreams and goals. Be specific about your goals. For example, say “I am taking a cooking class next month,” rather than “I would like to take a cooking class sometime.” Create a plan to reach your goals, and stick to it.
  • Take action. Goals alone have no meaning; you need to take action to make them real. Don’t let fear hold you back. "Just do it."
  • Never stop learning. Take classes, go back to school, read books, join a discussion group. If you are interested in a subject, make time to learn about it. Keep acquiring new skills.For more information, read The Benefits of Lifelong Learning for Older Adults.
  • Be persistent and work hard. You’ve probably heard the expression, “success is a marathon, not a sprint.” Keep your eye on the goal, and keep working toward it. Don’t give up.
  • Communicate with people effectively. Remember that no person is an island. Communicate your thoughts and desires honestly, and encourage others to communicate honestly with you. Practice understanding and motivating other people.
  • Be honest and dependable; take responsibility for what you do. Never cheat or lie. When you make a promise, keep it. When you screw up, admit it.Without honesty, dependability and responsibility, the other nine secrets of success don’t add up to much.

Besides, failure is also one of the way for you to success. This is besause, failure can bring you to achieve the branch of study that you have choose.

"The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure." Sven Goran Eriksson

Fail is your way to success! Why failure is so wonderful?

This is because failure can bulid your self confidence. Self confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits. Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Perception is reality — the more self confidence you have, the more likely it is you’ll succeed. Although many of the factors affecting self confidence are beyond your control, there are a number of things you can consciously do to build self confidence.

HOW TO BUILD SELF CONFIDENCE??

To build your self confidence, you must try your best in every branches of study that you have choose. You must sit in front of your teacher or lecturer while they teaching in front of the class or 'kuliah' room. Most people prefer to choose to sit at the back side because afraid of their lecturer and teacher.By deciding to sit in the front row, you can get over this irrational fear and build your self confidence. You’ll also be more visible to the important people talking from the front of the room.

Besides, you must also try to speak up in small group or in front of your class. During group discussion, many people prefer not to speak because they afraid people will judge the something not good of themselves. This perception is not true. Generally, people are much more accepting what did you give to them.In fact most people are dealing with the exact same fears. By making an effort to speak up at least once in every group discussion, you’ll become a better public speaker, more confident in your own thoughts, and recognized as a leader by your peers.

http://online.mara.gov.my/upimonline/PilihanPermohonan.aspx

CONCLUSION.

It is not easy to success and not easy to fail. But, if you can manage yourself very well, you can achieve what you want. If you fail to plan, you plan to fail.. But, fail is not the meaning that you fail. Failure can be a jump stone for you to success.


Friday, March 20, 2009

Knowledge is power

Knowledge is defined in the Oxford English Dictionary as (i) expertise, and skills acquired by a person through experience or education; the theoretical or practical understanding of a subject, (ii) what is known in a particular field or in total; facts and information or (iii) awareness or familiarity gained by experience of a fact or situation...

ISLAMIC KNOWLEDGE

If we are muslims, compulsory for us to know how to spreading salaams...


THE ISLAMIC RULING ON SALAAM

Initiating salaams is considered 'Sunnah' or optional, returning the salaams after it is offered is considered 'wagib' or obligatory, based on the first Qur'anic ayah mentioned. Islam also encourages people to offer the first greeting as mentioned in the Hadiths mentioned previously.

The Prophet was asked about the most appropriate way to give salaams as shown in the following Hadith:

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) says that a man asked the Prophet :

"O Messenger of Allah , when any one of us meets a Muslim brother or a friend then should he bow his head (as a sign of courtesy to him)?' He said: 'No.' The man said: 'Should he embrace him?' He said: 'No.' The man then asked: 'Should he clasp his hands?' He said: 'Yes." (Tirmithi)

Unfortunately, now in our community Muslims have adopted other methods of giving salutations, and as we can see in this Hadith, The Prophet was very precise about how salaams were to be given.

We as Muslims, should remember that Prophet Muhammad is the best example for us to follow in all aspects of our life, and we should be careful not to add anything new to the Deen of Islam, for fear of implying that the Prophet Muhammad did not complete his mission.

CONDITIONS UNDER WHICH SALAAM IS DISCOURAGED

There are certain situations under which it is preferable not to offer salaam. These include; when a person is relieving himself, when one is having marital relationship, when someone is sleeping or when in the bathroom.

Offering salaam when someone is reciting the Qur'an is permissible but discouraged. The same rule applies to someone who is making du'a or one who is praying.

ETIQUETTE OF SALAAM

There are several etiquette's to be followed with respect to the exchanging of salaam. The Prophet (saws), for example said:

"The person who is riding should offer salaam to the one who is walking; and the one who is walking should greet the one who is sitting; and the smaller group should greet the larger one." (Bukhari and Muslim)

Aside from the situations mentioned in the Hadith, the one who enters a house should initiate salaam to those already there. Furthermore, if one enters his home, it is preferable to offer salaam, even if there is no one at home by saying "Assalaamu alayna wa ala ibadillahi assaliheen" (i.e. peace be upon us and the righteous servants of Allah). With respect to salaam between the young and the old, the young is expected to begin the greeting.

It is also considered improper for someone to meet a group of Muslims and offer salaam only to some of them. The greeting must be for all in the group. If a group of people offer salaam to an individual at the same time, he may reply only once to all of them.

The head should never be bent as a sign of greeting. We bend our heads only to Allah. It must also be emphasized that other body gestures in any form or shape (for example, raising eyebrows, extending the arms, smiling, winking, etc.), cannot replace uttering the words of salaam.

Salaam for someone at a distance can be offered by saying the salaam and waving the hand. Waving the hand alone, however, is not considered a salaam.

Salaam is not only confined to the time of meeting only but it extends to when separating as well.

Abu Hurairah (may Allah be pleased with him), relates that the Prophet said:

"When one of you joins a gathering, he should greet those present; and when he leaves them he should salute them, because the first salutation is not better than the last one." (Abu Dawud and Tirmithi)

SAYINGS OF THE SAHABAH REGARDING SALAAM

Umar bin Khattab: "There are three ways of showing sincere brotherly love: give him the greeting of Salaam when you first meet him, make him comfortable, and call him by his favourite names."

Sa'id bin al-As: "I owe my sitting-companion three things: on his approach I greet him, on his arrival I make him welcome, and when he sits I make him comfortable."

CONCLUSION

There are two fundamental categories of human beings: Muslims and Non-Muslims. Any human being who chooses to submit to his Creator is called a Muslim and his way of life is Islam. A Muslim is a precious being in the sight of Allah. The Muslim gains special privileges, honour and dignity because of Islam. They are people (Muslims) who have achieved peace (Salaam) by accepting Peace (Islam). The salutation of Salaam is a special blessing of Allah for the Muslims. The first conclusion is that the Muslims should use Salaam to salute fellow Muslims because it is only befitting for them to do so.

It is below the dignity of the Muslim to use such expressions below their noble status. The Muslim should not degrade himself, by using Non-Muslim salutations; or his fellow Muslims, by saluting them with Non-Muslim salutation; and nor his Deen al-Islam, by adopting the ways of the Non-Muslims. The second conclusion is that Muslims should not use Non-Muslim salutations amongst themselves because these are unfit for them. The Muslims should not only refrain from using Non-Muslim salutations, but they should abhor such practices.